Red flags. We see them. We ignore them. As someone who is notorious for doing this, I’d like to take a deeper look and figure out why a lot of us ignore red flags from those we like and continue to chase them. If you were to look at how they treat you rationally, you […]
Let’s get right into it… ghosting. This is probably the most common game that’s played in dating nowadays. What is it? Well its purposely ignoring someone’s attempt to communicate with you. The act of leaving an individual on ‘read’. I’ve seen a bunch of social media accounts try to justify ghosting by saying it’s a […]
When it comes to dating, one of the most common complaints nowadays is the amount of games that we play with each other. Almost all of us alter our behaviour in one way or another when in pursuit of a potential partner, doing things that we normally wouldn’t in hopes of attracting this person or […]
I’ve been thinking about this question for a little while now… so let me ask: why is it so hard for us to be honest with ourselves about what we want? A lot of us lie to ourselves in some capacity, whether it’s about our career, who we’re dating, or even if we’re truly content […]
Arguably one of the hardest things in life to deal with, heartbreak never really gets easier no matter how many times you go through it. Sure, you definitely learn what you like and what you don’t as you date new partners… but that makes it all the harder to deal with if it happens again. […]
Time has been a topic on my mind quite a bit lately, especially as we all seem to have a lot more of it on our hands since last year. I’ve noticed that as a general rule of thumb, the majority of us have no concept of time as it relates to our mortality. What […]
2020 brought a lot of lessons, with one being the importance of maintaining a proper work-life balance. Those of us who were fortunate enough to keep our jobs during the pandemic also found that a merging of our work & personal lives started to occur, whether we liked it or not. As my living room […]
So it’s been a little while since I’ve written here. Since my last post, I’ve gone through therapy, a pandemic, getting deported, having a hurricane hit where I’m staying, and was hospitalized due to COVID-19 for 3 days where I was hooked up to an oxygen tank after going blind & barely breathing for 10 […]
When writing these blog posts, I usually try to describe the problems I’m going through but then provide the reader with solutions. I don’t ever want to come off with just ranting for the sake of it. I’ve always tried to offer lesson(s) that I’ve learned from life… but right now, I just want to […]
I Love You. Three words that hold such a powerful meaning that can completely change someone’s day. Completely uplift and make someone feel so wanted. Yet these can also be some of the three hardest words for someone to say. Although… Let me backtrack for a minute before getting into the topic of love. It’s […]