I reflect on my relationship experiences and share insights from my one-year anniversary with my girlfriend. I discuss the importance of being oneself in a relationship, the value of patience and understanding, the significance of learning and growing together, and the support needed during hard times. The effortless and natural dynamic of my relationship is highlighted, concluding with a subjective perspective on relationship pillars.
Continuing from my previous post, here are some ramblings from having the time to self-reflect on how 2022 affected me and what I hope to bring into 2023 from those experiences. It’s the beginning of a new year which means that it’s also around the time that people start to set goals, resolutions and aspirations […]
I’ve been quiet on here lately… so I figured it was time to do a little writing on a topic that I recently discussed with my therapist a few weeks back. We’ve been diving into my dating history as I’ve had a string of unsuccesful relationships and I’m trying to do some soul searching to […]
To set some expectations right off the bat… I’m not sure this piece is going to be anything but a bunch of my recent thoughts on dating and love. I typically try to write with purpose and to provide lessons, but this time around is just going to be an open conversation with myself. Hope […]
Red flags. We see them. We ignore them. As someone who is notorious for doing this, I’d like to take a deeper look and figure out why a lot of us ignore red flags from those we like and continue to chase them. If you were to look at how they treat you rationally, you […]
Let’s get right into it… ghosting. This is probably the most common game that’s played in dating nowadays. What is it? Well its purposely ignoring someone’s attempt to communicate with you. The act of leaving an individual on ‘read’. I’ve seen a bunch of social media accounts try to justify ghosting by saying it’s a […]
When it comes to dating, one of the most common complaints nowadays is the amount of games that we play with each other. Almost all of us alter our behaviour in one way or another when in pursuit of a potential partner, doing things that we normally wouldn’t in hopes of attracting this person or […]
Arguably one of the hardest things in life to deal with, heartbreak never really gets easier no matter how many times you go through it. Sure, you definitely learn what you like and what you don’t as you date new partners… but that makes it all the harder to deal with if it happens again. […]
So it’s been a little while since I’ve written here. Since my last post, I’ve gone through therapy, a pandemic, getting deported, having a hurricane hit where I’m staying, and was hospitalized due to COVID-19 for 3 days where I was hooked up to an oxygen tank after going blind & barely breathing for 10 […]
Where to start? I guess we could go chronologically but the fact is (and in life), nothing happens in order… there is always a mix of things happening at once. I guess one of the biggest impacts this year was going from living and seeing my ex-girlfriend on a daily basis to nothing at all. […]