As promised, back with another short Q&A based on some of the self-reflection questions asked by WNRS (we’re not really strangers). Today’s questions revolve around my past, and how it continues to affect me presently. I’m sure a lot of us have things we continue to bring forward that aren’t needed, so hopefully this helps […]
I reflect on my relationship experiences and share insights from my one-year anniversary with my girlfriend. I discuss the importance of being oneself in a relationship, the value of patience and understanding, the significance of learning and growing together, and the support needed during hard times. The effortless and natural dynamic of my relationship is highlighted, concluding with a subjective perspective on relationship pillars.
Continuing from my previous post, here are some ramblings from having the time to self-reflect on how 2022 affected me and what I hope to bring into 2023 from those experiences. It’s the beginning of a new year which means that it’s also around the time that people start to set goals, resolutions and aspirations […]
If I had to describe this year in a sentence? An absolute whirlwind of emotions, lessons, and building blocks for what I think might just be a pretty exciting future ahead. I’ve discussed some of the major events that happened to me this year in previous posts, so I guess I kind of wrote my […]
I’ve been quiet on here lately… so I figured it was time to do a little writing on a topic that I recently discussed with my therapist a few weeks back. We’ve been diving into my dating history as I’ve had a string of unsuccesful relationships and I’m trying to do some soul searching to […]
To set some expectations right off the bat… I’m not sure this piece is going to be anything but a bunch of my recent thoughts on dating and love. I typically try to write with purpose and to provide lessons, but this time around is just going to be an open conversation with myself. Hope […]
Red flags. We see them. We ignore them. As someone who is notorious for doing this, I’d like to take a deeper look and figure out why a lot of us ignore red flags from those we like and continue to chase them. If you were to look at how they treat you rationally, you […]
Let’s get right into it… ghosting. This is probably the most common game that’s played in dating nowadays. What is it? Well its purposely ignoring someone’s attempt to communicate with you. The act of leaving an individual on ‘read’. I’ve seen a bunch of social media accounts try to justify ghosting by saying it’s a […]
When it comes to dating, one of the most common complaints nowadays is the amount of games that we play with each other. Almost all of us alter our behaviour in one way or another when in pursuit of a potential partner, doing things that we normally wouldn’t in hopes of attracting this person or […]
I’ve been thinking about this question for a little while now… so let me ask: why is it so hard for us to be honest with ourselves about what we want? A lot of us lie to ourselves in some capacity, whether it’s about our career, who we’re dating, or even if we’re truly content […]