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March 18, 2021Dating & Heartbreak6 min read
Red flags. We see them. We ignore them. As someone who is notorious for doing this, I'd like to take a deeper look and figure out why a lot of us ignore red flags from…
January 3, 2021Dating & Heartbreak10 min read
So it's been a little while since I've written here. Since my last post, I've gone through therapy, a pandemic, getting deported, having a hurricane hit where I'm…
June 5, 2022Boundaries4 min read
I've been quiet on here lately... so I figured it was time to do a little writing on a topic that I recently discussed with my therapist a few weeks back. We've been…
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