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April 18, 2022Boundaries5 min read
\\This is an excerpt from a chapter on boundary setting in my upcoming book\\ You're going to have people or things in your life that probably make it easy to let your…
June 5, 2022Boundaries4 min read
I've been quiet on here lately... so I figured it was time to do a little writing on a topic that I recently discussed with my therapist a few weeks back. We've been…
February 12, 2024Dating & Heartbreak8 min read
I reflect on my relationship experiences and share insights from my one-year anniversary with my girlfriend. I discuss the importance of being oneself in a relationship…
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