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September 10, 2026Life Notes6 min read
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September 1, 2026Friendship & Family6 min read
When Did Our Parents Start Getting Older?
August 3, 2026Friendship & Family5 min read
Most Adult Friendships Don’t End. They Slowly Disappear.
2025
September 16, 2025Work, Ambition & Unemployment3 min read
How to Support Someone Who Is Unemployed: What Helps vs. What Hurts
2022
June 13, 2022Friendship & Family7 min read
A Letter I Should Have Written Long Ago
April 18, 2022Boundaries5 min read
Setting Boundaries With People & Things In your Life
March 22, 2022Grief & Mortality7 min read
This Is A Reminder To Live Life
2019
June 29, 2019Friendship & Family12 min read
I Love You.
2018
April 16, 2018Mental Health & Self-Worth10 min read
28 Years of Anger - The Journey So Far
2017
February 14, 2017Friendship & Family3 min read
Nana.
2015
December 30, 2015Grief & Mortality2 min read
Closing Out 2015.
December 10, 2015Grief & Mortality4 min read
Nate.
2014
December 16, 2014Friendship & Family4 min read
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